{"id":9551,"date":"2015-05-19T07:45:35","date_gmt":"2015-05-19T14:45:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/azaroff.com\/?p=9551"},"modified":"2025-08-29T08:26:59","modified_gmt":"2025-08-29T15:26:59","slug":"on-the-spectrum","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/azaroff.com\/?p=9551","title":{"rendered":"On the spectrum."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve never spoken publicly about autism.<\/p>\n<p>I speak at conferences about my work and communities and co-ops and such, but my personal life has never been a source of material. Until now.<\/p>\n<p>In October at the CU Water Cooler Symposium, I&#8217;ll be speaking about my experience raising a creative, talented, self-aware, anxious, sensitive and sometimes volatile boy who has gained great gifts and terrible burdens from his autism. I&#8217;ll be exploring the power that comes from focusing on a &#8220;special interest&#8221;, and how harnessing that interest can help people overcome great challenges in their lives.<\/p>\n<p>For my son, his special interest is music. By the time he turned ten, he had finished <a href=\"https:\/\/spectrasound.bandcamp.com\">three albums of original rock songs<\/a> and would jump at any opportunity to play live for people. He can write and record a song in the time it takes me to write a blog post. Sometimes less. His music has an honesty and innocence that I find awe-inspiring and humbling.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"The Alligator\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/7Ef4VKt9jao?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>He says that he owes his musical gifts to his autism &#8211; in fact his musical pseudonym is a nod to his disorder: he goes by <a href=\"https:\/\/spectrasound.bandcamp.com\"><em>Spectra<\/em><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll be speaking about my experience with my son and his autism, and then <em>Spectra<\/em> will join me on stage to perform a few of his original songs, showing off his tremendous talent, confidence and creativity. Afterwards he and I will jointly do a Q&amp;A with the audience to explore what it means to be autistic, and have a special interest to unlock our potential.<\/p>\n<p>It will be a unique experience, and I hope a special time for all of us. Join us at the CU Water Cooler Symposium in Kansas City, Missouri this October to take part.<\/p>\n<h5><em>Originally published on the <a href=\"https:\/\/web.archive.org\/web\/20170707025748\/http:\/\/www.cuwatercooler.com\/discussions\/on-the-spectrum\">CU Water Cooler<\/a>.<\/em><\/h5>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve never spoken publicly about autism. I speak at conferences about my work and communities and co-ops and such, but my personal life has never been a source of material. Until now. 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